Friend-zone (a curse or a cure)
*JUST A THOUGHT*
I'm not impinging on anyone's lifestyle or thought process but it's just like an urge to know what others really want from you......
Almost all of us are aware of these terms :-
"FRIEND-ZONE", "BRO-ZONE" & a "NO-ZONE" .
In India "FRIEND-ZONE" occurs when you have a really strong bond with a girl and she "DUMPS" you in the "FRIEND-ZONE" by using just a simple line and that is 'You're loyal, honest and moreover a great human being and my best friend & really I don't wanna loose you at any cost let it be like this only'
After this line any guy who was left with no words to persuade his girl starts to maintain a distance with her and finally a day comes when their so called "BFF" thing dies and they become strangers to each other.(It's my personal experience and may vary from person to person ). Now a question arises in my mind that when they know that their friendship gonna die one way or the other way around then "WHY DO NOT GIRLS LET THEIR BEST FRIENDS BE THEIR BOYFRIENDS?". 'Cause you never know what's gonna be next as your "BEST-FRIENDS" can be your "BEST-BOYFRIENDS" and you can avoid situations where you can fall for a scumbag and hurt yourself and your "BEST-FRIEND" too.
After this "FRIEND-ZONE" thing I will come to "BRO-ZONE", It's a situation where a girl "DUMPS" her "BEST-FRIENDS" & "FRIENDS" into "BRO-ZONE" and start addressing them as her "BROTHER" and trust me this is the worst nightmare in a boy's life. Only a guy can tell you what it feels like when the girl you love from all your heart approaches you and address you by saying "BHAIYA" this and that....... at that very moment that guy feels like crying from inside while simultaneously having a fake smile on his face and tries to avoid that ongoing situation asap.
Last but not the least "NO-ZONE" it refers to the zone where a girl rejects a guy without knowing a bit about him!
When a guy approaches a girl and express his feelings to her that can have two meanings behind it.... and those are :-
1)His feelings are genuine and he knows something about you which is mandatory to approach a girl.
2)His feelings are genuine and he knows shit about you but still that flair of love at first sight could be a possible reason for his actions at that particular time.
I know that exceptional cases are there but you can't have a perfect lot of guys.
In India 90% cases are of "NO-ZONE" just 'cause of a single reason.
I hope this will work like the way I thought and my brothers would be able to get their wish fulfilled. :)
I'm not impinging on anyone's lifestyle or thought process but it's just like an urge to know what others really want from you......
Almost all of us are aware of these terms :-
"FRIEND-ZONE", "BRO-ZONE" & a "NO-ZONE" .
In India "FRIEND-ZONE" occurs when you have a really strong bond with a girl and she "DUMPS" you in the "FRIEND-ZONE" by using just a simple line and that is 'You're loyal, honest and moreover a great human being and my best friend & really I don't wanna loose you at any cost let it be like this only'
After this line any guy who was left with no words to persuade his girl starts to maintain a distance with her and finally a day comes when their so called "BFF" thing dies and they become strangers to each other.(It's my personal experience and may vary from person to person ). Now a question arises in my mind that when they know that their friendship gonna die one way or the other way around then "WHY DO NOT GIRLS LET THEIR BEST FRIENDS BE THEIR BOYFRIENDS?". 'Cause you never know what's gonna be next as your "BEST-FRIENDS" can be your "BEST-BOYFRIENDS" and you can avoid situations where you can fall for a scumbag and hurt yourself and your "BEST-FRIEND" too.
After this "FRIEND-ZONE" thing I will come to "BRO-ZONE", It's a situation where a girl "DUMPS" her "BEST-FRIENDS" & "FRIENDS" into "BRO-ZONE" and start addressing them as her "BROTHER" and trust me this is the worst nightmare in a boy's life. Only a guy can tell you what it feels like when the girl you love from all your heart approaches you and address you by saying "BHAIYA" this and that....... at that very moment that guy feels like crying from inside while simultaneously having a fake smile on his face and tries to avoid that ongoing situation asap.
Last but not the least "NO-ZONE" it refers to the zone where a girl rejects a guy without knowing a bit about him!
When a guy approaches a girl and express his feelings to her that can have two meanings behind it.... and those are :-
1)His feelings are genuine and he knows something about you which is mandatory to approach a girl.
2)His feelings are genuine and he knows shit about you but still that flair of love at first sight could be a possible reason for his actions at that particular time.
I know that exceptional cases are there but you can't have a perfect lot of guys.
In India 90% cases are of "NO-ZONE" just 'cause of a single reason.
I hope this will work like the way I thought and my brothers would be able to get their wish fulfilled. :)
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